Fri 16 Jul 2010
The-Dream addresses his separation w/ Christina Milian: “I’ve tried to take my own life at a point”
Posted by Mikey Fresh under Fashion , Quotes , Relationships and Family[26] Comments
(The-Dream & Christina in happier times)
Mikey: Amidst all the controversy surrounding the photos of The-Dream & his “assistant” that led him to finally announce his separation from Christina Milian, the 31-year old songwriter/singer wrote a personal letter to the world on his website. While he apologizes profusely for his behavior and for keeping his failed marriage a secret, the most shocking confession is definitely The-Dream revealing that he tried to take his life over this heartbreak at one point. wow.
“In My Own Words:
First I want to thank God for the trials of life, without them we can’t know purpose!
I would love to tell the truth as to why my relationship wasn’t successful, but today that is between me and Christina. Its easy to say that it’s because of another woman or a new relationship but truthfully, IT’S NOT.
I take FULL RESPONSIBILITY for misleading everyone into thinking everything was fine and okay when we knew problems existed for awhile! I wanted to speak up but we decided it wasn’t for anyone to know. I would NEVER intentionally hurt a soul and everyone around me knows that! There was so much going on in me and Christina’s personal world that I tried to deal with it as delicately as I could and tried to regain my footing. Instead of being direct in order not to cause even more hurt or hurt someone’s feelings, I carried the weight in secret!”
(read more after the jump)
Previously: Busted: The Dream and “assistant” caught having Caribbean wrestling match (UPDATE: Dream announces separation)
“I am Human and people fall in and out of Love all the time… This is Life. Nothing’s promised or perfect, neither am I. I am not proud that I lost something we once had…LOVE! I’ve always been a Loving Father, Hard Worker, Generous, Stern and Eager to prove myself. My faults are I can be irresponsible and an ass sometimes, but I HAVE NEVER and WILL NEVER be a malicious person or wish harm to anyone, especially those I love or the mother of my child. I’m sorry for the embarrassment to everyone involved! If there’s anyone to blame and you can’t fathom this happening, please blame me and me alone for not being upfront! Even though we were trying to overcome personal things between us, I was just simply scared and embarrassed to let everyone know we WERE FAILING and HAVE NOW FAILED!
This is not to justify anything, it’s true emotion! It’s a real thing that involves real people! I’ve cried about this for months, after interviews, after prayer and I’ve tried to take my own life at a point because of the failure that was looming.
But I was reminded by my MOTHER that I am not “Superman” and its okay to lose sometimes…
This too shall pass! And everything will be fine!
~ Terius Nash ~ “
July 16th, 2010 at 11:15 am
Jesus, he’s really laying this on …..he makes it sound like this was his first failed relationship …..or does Nivea just not exist in this plane of existence?
July 16th, 2010 at 11:44 am
^^^ I agree J
July 16th, 2010 at 11:47 am
Its easy to pass judgement on situations that you are not in. At the end of the day, he has to deal with the fact that he has failed at being a committed fmaily man two times in a row. He has his own issues to work through and on and I can respect that he even took the time to talk about it.
July 16th, 2010 at 11:54 am
Yawn :/
July 16th, 2010 at 12:44 pm
This just goes to show these people are human too, we dont know the in’s and out’s of there relationship, but weather its Christina Milian, J-Lo or whoever its down to there personality, she could be a very borin person to be with don’t get me wrong i would make love to her from Am to Pm but if she aint actin right I would kick out
July 16th, 2010 at 12:48 pm
ni99a don’t act like a bytchhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!! ha ha ha who cares about u or that trick!! 🙂
July 16th, 2010 at 2:12 pm
Again…
I LUV HIS MUSIC. AND I HAVE TROUBLE FEELING SORRY FOR THIS GROUPIE!
#THATISALL
July 16th, 2010 at 3:33 pm
What a loser to post this on a website. I don’t care if it is his website or not. Straight sucka. In all honesty I think the whole marriage was a sham. If it wasn’t, oh well. This isn’t the world’s first divorce and it won’t the last. I hate that people feel so compelled to share personal matters with the public.
July 16th, 2010 at 4:09 pm
lol @ all the exclamation points. that’s a female trait.
July 16th, 2010 at 9:03 pm
lol…if any of yall lost christina yall would prolly do worse……talkin down on someones real feelings..smh, niggaz in here couldnt even get a glance from someone as gorgeous as christina so shut up with all the negativeness!
July 16th, 2010 at 9:36 pm
shoot ill get wit her
July 16th, 2010 at 10:06 pm
Ooooookay! I understand some of it BUT Dream couldve handled this a lot better. Why the average looking assistant that knew him & Christina? You’re a star! A LOT of beautiful women every where. Dude, enjoy yourself in the ATL & stop trying to be all booo’d up with these women. Damn!
July 16th, 2010 at 10:14 pm
I think someone took notice of those Kelis backlash numbers and is doing damage control lmao
at the end of the day he still comes off lame smh
July 17th, 2010 at 11:34 am
The Dream seems like he has issues. Hopefully everything works out for him. I still think this whole thing is a publicity stunt though . . .
July 17th, 2010 at 3:37 pm
I think someone took notice of those Kelis backlash numbers and is doing damage control lmao
at the end of the day he still comes off lame s
July 18th, 2010 at 12:26 am
Phuck that n*gga dnt explain shit to anybody…due to the situation and his actions christina did some shit for this n*gga for him to pull that…come on think about it tho..he’s an r&b singer do you know the amount of bitches jumping at em…then he goes to a beach wherehe knew he’ll get photo’d…I think he meant to do that.there’s always three sides to a story there’s his side her side and the truth.
July 18th, 2010 at 12:56 am
yadda yadda black danny devito no one really cares about you and that ugly betty looking hosistant… Next time do that behind closed doors flubber than maybe the public wouldnt be in your business old dumb clown… All I can say is you’re somewhat a celeb nobody really cares about you so save the p—- n—- syndrome for your puppets and just fade away like your career
July 18th, 2010 at 1:00 am
you mean to tell me nivea went from cory in the house to beetlejuice???????????
July 18th, 2010 at 6:38 pm
You tried to kill yourself, was it before or after you got caught? Maybe if you went thru with orginal plans, I would have believe you. You are a epic fail, now you want people to believe you, no sympathy go crawl under a rock, you’ll get better sympathy.
July 19th, 2010 at 2:11 am
damn this dudes music makes me change the station right away, you must be under a certain age to appreciate his “talents” I guess, all these candy ass sangers are destroying music (not just hip hop) with their saccharine sounds and concocted images, thank god for John Legend thats all I got to say. Dude is the real deal. He exhibits none of the smugness of this Dream guy or the over the top gimmick that is T Pain. Now I read TPizzle aint releasin his next album until the industry is in better “shape” THANK GOD FOR SMALL MERCY’S.
July 19th, 2010 at 6:39 am
Anyone notice the more famous and notice this guy gets.The more this fagget runs his mouth and his ego spew out? I’m saying you taking the blame for a fail marriage as if nieva never existed. Nigga please the reason why this letter was written is because you got caught..I’m actually glad you got busted now. Cause this means your career is offically over and missinfo doesn’t have to post up your cornyass music anymore….thank god!
July 19th, 2010 at 10:16 am
I thought I was alone in holding that opinion about Dream. I liked his first album because it was new and fresh but these days his voice irritates me. I think he has a horrible female sounding voice and I question his so called creativity.
July 19th, 2010 at 10:23 am
Huh? So what characters you use and how you use them when typing can determine your sexuality? GTFOH!!!!!!
And here i am just thinking that it’s a way to express excitement? Damn. Glad you cleared that up!!!!!!!
July 19th, 2010 at 10:57 am
when will the world understand that its not about “beautiful women” all the damn time. That assistant probably filled some emotional need the kat had. Who knows what kinda chick christina actually is behind closed doors?
July 19th, 2010 at 11:41 am
Just My Point!
July 20th, 2010 at 7:58 am
this dude is full of shit and anybody that believes it is a lame!! he’s talkin about he has always been a loving father….i remember an interview from this bird that he doesnt help christina with the baby cause he got “people” 4 that. as soon as this nigga throw some mush out there these dumb ass bitches and niggas goin 4 it!smdh