Wed 30 Dec 2009
Daddy Dearest: did Teddy Riley beat his daughter with a Rock Band guitar? (ps: twitter is kryptonite for celebs) (UPDATED)
Posted by Miss Info under Beef , Crime , Life Beyond Rap , low point 2009 , Not Good For Humanity , Quotes , Relationships and Family[54] Comments
(sisters Taja and Deja Riley at an event, and dad Teddy Riley on the right)
Teddy’s 18-year-old daughter Taja Riley was granted a temporary restraining order against her dad — claiming 43-year-old Teddy abused her and her older sister by “stomping, punching and bashing them” in his L.A. home on December 23.
In the documents, filed in L.A. County Superior Court, Taja claims at one point Teddy, “lifted a Rock Band guitar and threatened to kill person(s) w/ it.”
The holidays light fire to pent-up family tension like a tattered extension cord to dry Christmas tree needles. And the house that “New Jack City” built got crazy between Teddy Riley, his daughters Taja and Deja, and his girlfriend, Bita. Not only did the physical altercation allegedly happen, but it was world war iii on twitter too. Daughter Deja tweeted that the girlfriend was “a golddigger” who met Teddy “2 months ago” and is the “same age” as her (Deja is 21 years old). (For more, check Necole Bitchie)
Bita tried to defend herself (and cancel her twitter at Teddy’s request). Taja joined in to tell her followers that her dad had beaten her and her sister…
UPDATE: Teddy Riley released a statement denying that he beat his daughters…
“I love my Daughters, but I will not allow my children to disrespect me in my home. Contrary to what I have been accused of, I would never beat my children.
Perhaps, I should have been a stronger disciplinarian as they were growing up. I worked very hard so that my children would want for nothing.
In hindsight, I see that it was a mistake to give them everything they wanted so that they could have the childhood I never had. Unfortunately, they have taken me, and the privileged life I have given them, completely for granted. Instead of being appreciative and realizing how fortunate they are, my children have an inflated sense of entitlement and expectation without having to work or earn their way….”
(More after the jump…)
Teddy Riley’s entire statement: (via TMZ)
“Due to recent events, I am compelled to respond in detail to accusations made against me, by my daughters.
I love my Daughters, but I will not allow my children to disrespect me in my home. Contrary to what I have been accused of, I would never beat my children.
Perhaps, I should have been a stronger disciplinarian as they were growing up. I worked very hard so that my children would want for nothing.
In hindsight, I see that it was a mistake to give them everything they wanted so that they could have the childhood I never had. Unfortunately, they have taken me, and the privileged life I have given them, completely for granted.
Instead of being appreciative and realizing how fortunate they are, my children have an inflated sense of entitlement and expectation without having to work or earn their way.
However, my ‘children’ are no longer children, they are adults and I am trying to instill in them values and a work ethic of their own. My mother always told me “too many grown people can’t live in one house” so I encourage them to have their own homes if they cannot abide by the rules of mine. I am not an uptight Dad, I am as hip as they come but I will not tolerate being taken advantage of or disrespected, especially in my home.
I’ve been working since the age of 14, I bought my first car by myself. Nobody gave me a car. My kids don’t even remember their first car. I grew up with 6 of us in an apartment fighting over one bathroom. My kids have never had to share a bathroom, let alone a bedroom.
I’m asking everyone to let this one go… I’m only being a good parent. I’m a great father and everyone who knows me, knows this is true.
Thank you so much,
With all my love,
Teddy Riley”
December 30th, 2009 at 7:50 am
I heard a little about the situation. but mr. yeup yeup need to step out the house before lifting a hand to, out of all females, his daughters. They seem hurt too from those posts….Teddy(FAIL).
December 30th, 2009 at 9:38 am
kids are too damn rude, whip that ass for being disrespectful to your father, these children have gotten out of control.
December 30th, 2009 at 10:37 am
Do you think, like, at one point when he was trying to beat up his daughters with a Rock Band guitar his conscience popped up and was like “whoa whoa whoa Teddy…Let’s chill, just settle down”
December 30th, 2009 at 1:05 pm
lookin at that them twit texts i see why he beat their asses. he’s taken care of them and what all they want is their father to be sick and alone when he gets old. if teddy cuts them off i bet they’ll be gold diggin themselves to keep their lifestyle lol
December 30th, 2009 at 1:34 pm
This is sad. Clearly another dude that is “stuck” on an anchor from the past trying to revisit his “2nd childhood” dating a woman the age of his daughter. He’s out of control and this is his trying to regain control over two young women that have outgrown his childish ways. I guess those royal checks aren’t what they used to be.
December 30th, 2009 at 1:48 pm
sounds like them beatings r a few years too late
December 30th, 2009 at 1:53 pm
domestic abuse is terrible and inexcusable.. but it was an extremely pleasant surprise to wake up and see Teddy Riley in the news! about.. something!
*bumps some vintage SWV*
December 30th, 2009 at 1:54 pm
or discipline…watever way u wana put it
December 30th, 2009 at 2:09 pm
This is sad to see a father do such a thing to his child but, yet I can’t believe this is public. Damn twitter I hope things work out for their family.
December 30th, 2009 at 3:34 pm
GET THE FUCK OUTTA HERE!! I’m not a T.R. fan but girls at that age can be so fucking disrespectful and he checked their little asses hahahaha big deal he should have checked them sooner in life but I guess he was too busy paying the bills and spoiling them.. This just goes to show you how lame the minds of bitches of all ages are.. They do some silly shit get an ass kicking for it and instantly run to twitter like their father is some fucking child abuser because what they dont like his new girlfriend and want to be spiteful, really? Females are birds…
I bet you if he had the same issue with HIS FUCKING SONS and he threw they shit out the window and checked that little nigga for being disrespectful there would be none of this… These little girls have clearly listened to their mothers far too much and decided to punish their father with rudeness as some for of punishment for his sins against their mother.. These kids need to grow the fuck up.. woman operate in a very shady grey area that I am getting sick of personally!
By the looks of their twitter comments they needed to catch a black eye!
December 30th, 2009 at 3:36 pm
I can’t believe folks acting like kids these days can’t get they azz whupped. Me and my sibs got beat with whatever was in arms reach and everybody turned out fine. It wasn’t abuse either, it was discipline. Step outta line and you gonna get it. Age didn’t matter, some of my fam was still getting it in their late teens. If you didn’t buy food and pay bills, you get your ass beat or get out. More power to you Teddy, get all them young chicks from round you, including your girlfriend.
He sounds like a reasonable person, they could have expressed their concerns to him like women, not kids and definitely not on twitter. Since they want to be treated like adults they need to act like it. If they so grown then they should not worry about that woman and support their father as long as he is happy. They don’t think he deserves to be happy after everything he has done for them.
December 30th, 2009 at 3:59 pm
Some people are dumbasses. How are you going to put your business on blast on twitter for the whole world to see. Didn’t Teddy write something on HIS twitter saying “you damn right i did it and i would do it again” or smtn.
December 30th, 2009 at 4:07 pm
What are they complaining about? At least he didnt use the drumset…
December 30th, 2009 at 4:37 pm
Wow. After seeing the Nicole Bitchie post…. Wow.
December 30th, 2009 at 4:53 pm
Spare the rod spoil the child…
December 30th, 2009 at 4:58 pm
I think it would be just as effective to go upside someone’s head with the old Simon game. Cause than you can match up tempos on they forehead, plus that thing is ten times as heavy as the Rock Band guitar.
December 30th, 2009 at 5:15 pm
What an idiot! Everyone knows you gotta do stupid things when your on top not after you fall off. Plus he should of done it with the drum set she wouldn’t of snitched then. I’m joking dude messed up if this is true.
December 30th, 2009 at 5:32 pm
his daughters are probably upset that his new girlfriend is spending money or has taken all the attention TR was giving them.
Who cares what his girlfriends age is. as long that she is ovaer 18 who cares…
ANY REAL MAN OVA FORTY WILL WANNA DATE A 18, 19 OR EARLY 20 YEAR OLDS….SOME OF US ARE LUCKY AND SOME OF YALL AINT. LOL…
But in reality when he says that they feel entitlement he is probably saying that they think that his fortunes is theirs and shouldn’t nobody else beside them should waste any monies….
shit ima go listen to some groove me baby tonite.
December 30th, 2009 at 5:35 pm
look at all the top money earners they be with woman half they age. russel simmons, jerry seinfeld etc…
December 30th, 2009 at 5:39 pm
lmao at 2nd childhood. That’s exactly what it is.
December 30th, 2009 at 5:47 pm
so what do you think about demi moore or hulk hogan’s ex-wife both with young guys i guess that’s childish and they revisiting their childhood huh? hell what about all these older women, cougar movement ish. it’s sad they don’t want there father to be happy.
December 30th, 2009 at 6:29 pm
I find this funny now. At first I didn’t find it laughable but it is now. Twitter really com on son if your ass is going to put it out there expect us to have an opinion. Some of you are making good points come to think of it we really don’t know what happen. If true I think Teddy did get a little carried away leaving marks and bruises on the girls. If there were any issues that couldn’t be solve just kick there asses out simple. Still hope they heal and sort this out someday.
December 30th, 2009 at 6:54 pm
i thought it was just me…
going to twitter is like trying to dial 911…
if anything teddy didn’t get em good enough cuz i wouldn’t have made it to the phone nevermind a computer. staying at my parents house rent and bill free? and got the audacity to have an opinion bout who they dating? and you 18? Stop it 5!!
December 30th, 2009 at 6:54 pm
Older people with younger people isn’t a male or female thing, it’s a growth issue. I don’t see what the hell a man 20-plus years has in common with a 21-year old besides sex and it undermines his relationship with his children to date one of their peers. Let’s not try to rationalize his nonsense with the nonsense of some cougars who have experienced womb trauma and feel the need to “birth” a grown baby. They need therapy too!!!
December 30th, 2009 at 8:08 pm
‘By the looks of their twitter comments they needed to catch a black eye!’
After thinking about what I just typed, I realized how much of a f**king douchebag I am. They are 18 year old daughters. I would never condone that type of violence on young women…
hey Big, FTFY man
December 30th, 2009 at 9:11 pm
baby beat me tonight
baby do me tonight
a quote from one of there father’s classic hits………..eh i mean songs
December 30th, 2009 at 9:23 pm
LOL he should whoop they ass for putting him on blast like that and take away they money.
If you not black or latino you probably gonna take what I said the wrong way lol.
December 30th, 2009 at 9:47 pm
Whoa!!! spare the rod, spoil the child…so true. hopefully, they can work it out…everybody got an opinion…especially when its not involving hem…peace!!!
December 31st, 2009 at 2:25 am
I REMEMBER MOM-DU BEAT ME WIT A HANGER, THREW DA SUGAR DISH AT ME(LOL), EVEN CAUGHT ME IN DA SHOWER(AAAAAHHHH)…THAT BELT STUNG! SO HE WENT A LIL FIST TO CUFF WIT THEM, WE ALLL NEED A ASS KICKN FRUM TIME TO TIME. REMEMBER YOUR NEVA TOO OLD…UH OH, GOTTA GO, MY MOMS IS LOOKN FER ME
December 31st, 2009 at 6:02 am
Looks like they do not bring him Joy anymore.
December 31st, 2009 at 7:46 am
my father (r.i.p)is nigerian and he whooped me with cable wires,i got flugged back home at school with tree branches i mean scars for weeks,and it only made me a respectful person now in my early 20s .But i agree he could’ve just froze their Trustfunds,allowances,have em geta regular 9-5 .hope it works out because blood is thicker than water.TR was just under a spell for a second .. I think He should Watch Some MJ videos(which he;s missing so much since they were very close) everything will be ok. GOD/GODDESS bless1
Happy 2k10 Miss Georgeous INFO!
December 31st, 2009 at 10:23 am
^^^ Co-sign… My parents wud get triple life today if i got the ass whoopings i got coming up. Teddy was right ” Under my roof, u live by my rules” its no compromise…
My parents wud stall me out something terrible and dare me to call the cops or bcw (acs, w.e its called today) — these kids today dont get that tough love, if they did these situations wud be rare.
December 31st, 2009 at 11:35 am
Whoopin’s are whoopin’s and no matter how old u are u might still need one. Most of ya’ll do! But wow a rockband guitar, that’s called “keeping in tune with the kids nowadays”
December 31st, 2009 at 11:40 am
And another thing.. has Teddy R, been in trouble before? I cant think of one time.. but at least he know that they need their own shit. It’s time to kick rocks.
December 31st, 2009 at 2:01 pm
Teddy probably had enough of those spoiled ass girls talkin slick and he went in on that ass. Those twitter’s didn’t give me a sense that Teddy was an abuser, but they were probably shocked that they got popped. Its funny how parents can no longer dicipline their children. I never considered the ass whuppins I used to get abuse. I deserved those shits but kids now adays know time-outs…what tha…? My moms was to her friends on the phone…time out, I gotta go whip his ass cause of whatever, there was never any, go in your room and “time Out” .. betcha they wont talk slick with dad again…
Holla!!! Now they got popped & gotta fend for themselves. AHHHH HAAA!!!
December 31st, 2009 at 3:41 pm
MIND YALL FUKKIN BIZNESS…PERIOD..WHO GIVES ASH1T..THEY DOIN’ BETTER THAN MOST SPEAKING ON THIS..AS YOU WERE..
December 31st, 2009 at 3:54 pm
HAHAHAHAHHAHAHA
ONE OF HIS DAUGHTERS CLONED MY NAME AND POSTED AS ME LOL THATS DOPE..
YEAH I SAID IT.. YOUR SILLY ASS NEED TO GET CHECKED! THE END!!
January 1st, 2010 at 12:22 am
TO…YOU’S A FUNNY DUDE
January 1st, 2010 at 12:25 am
BUT THIS IS GREAT ENTERTAINMENT.
January 1st, 2010 at 3:37 am
i agree. grown ass girls need to move out!! i had the same problem. teddy is right. raising boys is much more easier because girls become jealous, and spiteful especially when they are spoilied little b_____s and has never had to work for anything!! i had to throw one of my daughters to the floor after she disrespected me and called me a B____ because i called her out on her grades and the way she dresses. i personally had to open up a can of “whup ass”, no one knows what this feels like until it happens to you. i say stop spoiling these kids even when they do have money!! make them work for it and earn it even if they are rich. look at the lindsey lohans and brittany spears of the world and learn from these girls. it was only when brittney’s father took the money away and started to build bounderies and structure around her; that made her start to do well!! STOP GIVEN KIDS “THINGS” WHEN IT IS NOT EARNED BECAUSE WE CAN AFFORD IT!! IT REALLY F___S THEM UP AND TURNS THEM INTO “BIPOLAR LITTLE MONSTERS”.
January 1st, 2010 at 5:53 am
ROTFLMPAO JOHN YOU IS A MESS BUT THAT RIGHT THERE WAS FUNNY THANKS FOR THE LAUGH@ WHOA WHOA WHOA TEDDY….LETS CHILL, JUST SETTLE DOWN….LOL I CANT.
January 1st, 2010 at 6:06 am
THAT IS WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT @STREETPOET I WAS ABOUT THE POST THE SAME THING BUT I WILL SAY THIS:
QUOTE~~~~
1. To the education of children in that which is good there is necessary a due correction of them for what is amiss; every child of ours is a child of Adam, and therefore has that foolishness bound up in its heart which calls for rebuke, more or less, the rod and reproof which give wisdom. Observe, It is his rod that must be used, the rod of a parent, directed by wisdom and love, and designed for good, not the rod of a servant. 2. It is good to begin betimes with the necessary restraints of children from that which is evil, before vicious habits are confirmed. The branch is easily bent when it is tender. 3. Those really hate their children, though they pretend to be fond of them, that do not keep them under a strict discipline, and by all proper methods, severe ones when gentle ones will not serve, make them sensible of their faults and afraid of offending. They abandon them to their worst enemy, to the most dangerous disease, and therefore hate them. Let this reconcile children to the correction their good parents give them; it is from love, and for their good, Heb. 12:7-9.
WITH THAT SAID IF HE NEEDED TO WHUP THOSE GIRLS AZZ BECAUSE THEY WAS OUT OF ORDER THAN SO BE IT. WHO IS ANYONE TO JUDGE HIM FOR SPANKING HIS CHILDREN. LOOK WHAT THEY POSTED. THEY ARE MAD DISRESPECTFUL. HE PROBABLY TRIED TO GIVE THEM THE WORLD AND THE ONLY THING THEY CAN DO IS SH*T ON HIM BECAUSE HE IS DOING HIM. OH WELL OH WELL IT’S IN THE BIBLE SPARE THE ROD SPOIL THE CHILD I LIVE BY THAT AND I CAN GUARANTEE YOU THAT IF HE WOULD OF SPANK THEY AZZ A LONG TIME AGO THEY WOULDNT BE SO DISRESPECTFUL NOW. SORRY FOR THE LONG POST MISSINFO BUT I HAVE THREE OF MY OWN AND IF MINE GET OUT OF LINE THEY KNOW WHATS UP!!!
January 1st, 2010 at 1:34 pm
Amen…go for yours, Teddy. Sometimes a woman needs to get her a** beat. I don’t condone just wanton woman abuse but if your daughter is acting the fool, sometimes you gotta do it. AND get cut off from the umbilical. I hope that dude ain’t givin’ these little b tches any more money, let them work for what they want or rely on their other fam.
January 1st, 2010 at 2:20 pm
I bet his daughters were talking reckless while he was playing ‘Rock Band’…this is no different than getting something thrown at you (for talking slick) while your moms is in the kitchen.
TR was probably caught up in the game and the daughters probably stepped in front of the TV and was like “now what you gonna do” and he ROCK’d they asses to sleep with the guitar.
Like someone else mentioned, what if they were sons instead of daughters, there wouldn’t be a ‘temp restraining order’ in place. I hope they moved out when they decided to get that restraining order..cause theres no way you going to the cops on me and I’m taking care of you. He should’ve kicked them out. Let them sleep on the street or in shelter so they can learn to appreciate everything he’s done for them.
January 1st, 2010 at 4:18 pm
any time i watch ‘my super sweet 16’ i want to punch their faces in.
January 2nd, 2010 at 6:26 am
Respect your parents or get the fuck out of their house! He should had slapped them twice!
January 2nd, 2010 at 7:55 pm
big u sound so stupid and have no respect for females no-one know what really happened but no real father should beat his daughters up for having a comment on how they feel about there parents partner it stupid a$$’$ like u that dont deserve kids or a girl u are nothing but a sexist pig that need to be checked like t.r
January 2nd, 2010 at 8:12 pm
it’s not the kids fault for being that way its the parent for raising the kids that way so who is wrong teddy
January 3rd, 2010 at 8:03 am
Honestly just sounds like a case of spoiled children they are the fucking worst…….it’s almost a waste a life giving a child too much i dont really like teddy but i can feel em…..
January 3rd, 2010 at 3:29 pm
HAHAHAHAH WHATEVER!!!
IF MY DAUGHTER JUMPS UP OR SPEAKS OUT OF PLACE I WILL BLACK HER FUCKING EYE THE END…
BUT MORE IMPORTANTLY WHAT TYPE OF KID TAKES A FAMILY DISPUTE TO TWITTER? ITS DUMB BITCHES LIKE THAT WHO DONT DESERVE A FATHER OR A WELL OFF ONE FOR THAT MATTER, WHOO THERE IT IS!!
A parent has every right to kick thier kids ass THE FUCKING END!! Deal with with… and when a parent cant “check” a little smart mouth bitch for crossing the line is where problems come from and anarchy begins!
January 4th, 2010 at 8:02 pm
I think that they are lying about him beating them because if the police came to there house and saw those so called bruises on that girls face they would have arrested him right there and then come on it is the L.A.P.D, they love throwing a brotha in jail these chicks are just trying to get more money out of him then he is trying to give and jealous of his girlfriend because she is young and they think she is going to get all his money and none is going to be left for them
January 5th, 2010 at 3:00 pm
Look all I have to say is y`all just keep living by white folks rules. The was I see it is that no grown az child of mine or anyone else is going come in my home and run chit.These kids have to learn to respect you and your rules if they dont get the hail out and take all your chit. Dont turn around for jack. Its them or me and what I bring to this Earth is not killing me.
January 7th, 2010 at 9:05 am
I think those spoilt brats need to grow up. That girl got a brand spanking new BMW for her 16th bday. When I passed I had my name put on the insurance of my mum’s seat ibiza (exactly!) – and I was thankful! I’m 20 and living at my parents’ house. They provide me with food but if I want something extra I work and pay for it myself. These girls have it made, their dad even got them a job! If I was him I would have picked them up and threw them out the house!!
January 10th, 2010 at 5:02 am
to big reply, you were right on with your first comment…what happened, you burned a L and freaked out about what you said? You might of been a little harsh but they definetly spoiled…there are plenty of examples where fathers chose to raise their children differently, one being bill cosby …..Quotes from Bill Cosby “Even though your kids will consistently do the exact opposite of what you’re telling them to do, you have to keep loving them just as much.” “I guess the real reason that my wife and I had children is the same reason that Napoleon had for invading Russia: it seemed like a good idea at the time.” ….Sweet children can become horrible adults, if their minds aren’t cultivated in an enviroment conducive to it’s well being the outcome will more than likely result in a simular manner to the one like Mr. Riley……..