Thu 31 Jan 2013
Beyonce Shares Her Saddest Loss: “There Was No Heartbeat”
Posted by Mikey Fresh under Interviews[12] Comments
Beyonce may be one of the most private and guarded pop stars in the world. Obviously, you know Bey isn’t going to getting caught up in Twitter beefs or other senseless social media nonsense. And, when it comes to matters of her personal life, the details always remain under wraps. But that looks like that will change when her HBO documentary debuts on Feb 16. US Weekly just revealed some exclusive quotes from Beyonce talking about her miscarriage for the first time. Jay briefly touched on the subject on his dedication track to his first born daughter Blue Ivy, but Bey remained silent about the tragedy throughout 2012.
In a surprising moment of candor, she opens up for the first time about the incident and its aftermath in Life Is But a Dream, her new documentary debuting on HBO in February. “About two years ago, I was pregnant for the first time,” the Grammy winner says in one scene. “And I heard the heartbeat, which was the most beautiful music I ever heard in my life.”
“I picked out names,” Beyonce recalls. “I envisioned what my child would look like . . . I was feeling very maternal.”
Beyonce opens about channeling her sadness into song after the jump…
But something went wrong in the early stages, the “Love on Top” singer reveals. “I flew back to New York to get my check up — and no heartbeat,” she says. “Literally the week before I went to the doctor, everything was fine, but there was no heartbeat.”
“I went into the studio and wrote the saddest song I’ve ever written in my life,” she says, although she doesn’t name the track. “And it was actually the first song I wrote for my album. And it was the best form of therapy for me, because it was the saddest thing I’ve ever been through.”
All of which made her successful pregnancy with Blue Ivy all the more exciting and joyful. “Being pregnant was very much like falling in love,” she muse. “You are so open. You are so overjoyed. There’s no words that can express having a baby growing inside of you, so of course you want to scream it out and tell everyone.”
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January 31st, 2013 at 2:48 pm
I understand that pregnancy loss is a tragedy, but 1 in 4 pregnancies ends in a miscarriage during the first trimester. Not sure what she meant by “early on”, but as a mother and as someone who has lived thru early miscarriages, you do not get ‘maternal’ overnight. Save the drama, Bey, you have a healthy child now, and that’s all that matters.
January 31st, 2013 at 3:04 pm
yikes! tough crowd!
January 31st, 2013 at 3:10 pm
Right ?! Geez. Like someone can’t feel hurt about something painful from the past smh
January 31st, 2013 at 3:39 pm
Alex, Whilst you don’t want her speaking for da female_planet – you end up doing so anyway. Being a mother as you’ve experienced is your particular situation – in the same way hers is individual & she might’ve felt ‘maternal’. There’re times you need to back off – you ain’t gotta register hate everytime. It’s her story not the non-recognition of miscarriage statistics – the digression was poor!!How women feel during pregnancy’s individual & in some cases differ from one baby to the other.Hope Bey & Alex become less bitter mums!!!
January 31st, 2013 at 3:53 pm
The hateration is strong with this one. Apparently having a uterus makes you an expert on how Bey should feel about losing her child? Please.
January 31st, 2013 at 4:38 pm
Super tough crowd sheesh
January 31st, 2013 at 8:56 pm
Alex , so what your saying is your feelings about pregnancy resonates for every single woman who was ever pregnant. I hope you get pregnant by Biz Markie!
January 31st, 2013 at 9:13 pm
Lol
January 31st, 2013 at 9:51 pm
Bey could discover the cure for cancer and people would still criticize her for it. Your angry ass needs a hug.
February 1st, 2013 at 10:01 am
what about when she heard either…?
February 1st, 2013 at 11:31 am
thx. wasn’t trying to be bitter. perhaps didn’t word things right. just thought that her power of celebrity could be used in a less self-absorbed way than simply ‘me, me, me, oh and also me…’ But you’re right, she is just one person, speaking about herself, so no judgment.
February 1st, 2013 at 12:31 pm
she mad jayz isnt her baby daddy