Comments on: Real Housewives’ Kandi says she and her (fertile) fiance are “on hiatus”: (

By: MS HARIS

MS HARIS — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 20:28:04 +0000

I AGREEE WITH U..BESIDES..WE AS WOMEN WOULD WANT A GOOD MAN 2 STEP IN AFTER OUR NO GOOD SPERM DONORS RUN OFF ON US.. IMAGINE SOMBODY NOT WANTING U BECAUSE U CHOSE 2 HAVE CHILDREN.IT PRPBABLY WON’T B A NICE FEELING..IT’S LIKE TAMEKA N USHER EVERYBODY HAS SOMETHING 2 SAY…BUT LOVE HAS NO CONDITIONS

By: Kristy

Kristy — Fri, 09 Oct 2009 05:52:16 +0000

A.J. Rest In Peace.

By: Sashai

Sashai — Tue, 06 Oct 2009 04:04:08 +0000

Well, that’s why Kandi was with AJ and none of you were. She considers those children family and that is her perogative (sp). I think its great. They were living together so what difference does it make whether or not they were marriedanyway? These children saw them living as husband and wife, and I’m ot saying that its wrong or right.. ut what I’m saying is that they bonded with Kandi in the way that they would have if she and AJ were married. God knows all things, and who knows where these girls would be now that their father has died.. their mother was unfit. Let’s thank God that they are not in the foster care system, an orphanage, or somewhere or on the streets. Kandi is clearly a good woman with a good heart. Only God, AJ, and Kandi know the details behind their relationship and whether or not he was using her- though I doubt it since MOST OF YOU HAD NO CLUE OR DIDNT REMEMBER WHO SHE WAS UNTIL RHOA. They were together before the show aired and before her name was put out so publicly again. Let her grieve her loss without all the bullshit negativity and drama surrounding the blogs. Let her remember him the way that he WAS rather than the way that you are PERCEIVING him to be. We didn’t know him, she did. We love you Kandi!!

By: MzBrittanyLUVZ Ghostface Killa Cam!!! ^_^

MzBrittanyLUVZ Ghostface Killa Cam!!! ^_^ — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 21:44:41 +0000

EXACTLY!!! Im from Ohio and I have only been in Atlanta for a year and it is flat out depressing! I feel SORRY for any woman who has had to live only here and never had the experience of being somewhere else. There is nothing but beautiful women in this city and gay men. Its unreal! I dont know why i wanted to come to school here so bad, but I know one thing. As soon as I graduate im on the first thing smokin out of homo land!

Its crazy to me because Kandi isnt all that, but she is pretty successful and attractive. If she were in another city she would be beating them off with a stick. In atlanta the best she can do is…that! lol wtf?

She should move to new york! Thats where the men are. Ask Miss Info, shes beating them off with a stick too.lol

By: ludvilla

ludvilla — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 18:58:50 +0000

I agree on some points 1st kandi wasn’t AJ’s wife so she didn’t have to raise any of his child, and if Kandi is really smart and ambitious she was right to choose to not marry him especially if she wants to manage, her career.
Then there’s not only in atlanta where it’s hard to to find the GOOD ONE, somebody honnest and respectful not a liar and a cheater.
but it’s not, a reason to treat every body in the same way ,
ps; but I’m not telling u do !

By: Shayla

Shayla — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 13:20:21 +0000

OMG…it’s like you read my mind. I COSIGN your entire post. I too live in Atlanta. I’ve been married for seven years now and if I ever divorced you couldn’t PAY ME to step back out on the dating scene here. I wish Kandi would realize her worth as well. She’s a good chick!

: )

By: MzBrittanyLUVZ Ghostface Killa Cam!!! ^_^

MzBrittanyLUVZ Ghostface Killa Cam!!! ^_^ — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 03:58:30 +0000

KANDI IS OUT OF HER FREAKIN MIND!!!!

First Off…

Kandi was NEVER his wife, so she doesnt have “step children”!!Especially from a man shes only had a relationship with for a year! SMFH

A.J…

My issue with A.J was never the fact that he had a bunch of kids.This man has SIX kids by FOUR different women! My only question is what stopped him from being with any of them? Now, This man started FOUR families and couldnt make ANY of them work??? Now he wants to marry Kandi and have a 5th family??? What was it that he saw in Kandi after dating for ONLY SEVEN months that he knew he wanted to marry her? Kandi said herself on the show when they were engaged they had only been together for 7 months. I can totally understand why her mother thought she was crazy! I have no where near what this woman Kandi does…But if a man told me he had six kids I would take off running in the other direction. Thats whats wrong with our community! He doesnt need to be with Kandi! Never should have been! He needs to be with ONE of his families! Sleeping in the beds he made and being with one of those families he started! Not making a new one!I dont know many women who have have the things Kandi has, but I know one thing…Not one woman I know would give a man like him a second glance. Its not about being a scrub its just reality. Its no way he can feed and educate that many kids on a strip club! Thats why Kandi is takin care of two of them. Im sure her momma still think she crazy cause I sure do! He not gonna be with her now, cause he doesnt have to be. Shes doing exactly what he wanted from her, from jump street! Helping him take care of all them kids!

Of course he wanted to marry Kandi within seven months! Shes probably the only successful woman who would give someone like him a second look! six kids and 4 baby mothers…aint no way in hell! He needs to go with him. He doesnt need to star another family that could potentially fail like most relationships do have the potential to fail!

Theres one born every minute and kandi is SUCKER OF THE YEAR!!! Wow…I really wish she knew her worth!

However…I LIVE in Atlanta and I know the selection of STRAIGHT MEN who arent gay/look down low is very very small! Its actually sad! Its impoosible to find men in Atlanta…that may be why Kandi is settling for this. She can do BETTER!!

(Gotta go get ready for school…My fingers are cramping up. *LATER*)

~MzBrittanyLUV

By: Geneva Relf

Geneva Relf — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 03:27:55 +0000

THAT WAS A CRAZY BUT FUNNY SHOW THAT DAY.

By: Miss Info

Miss Info — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 03:22:21 +0000

I was lol

By: TynisaColleen

TynisaColleen — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 03:21:29 +0000

for a second I thought that u were comparing Kandi’s ambiguously employed (ex)man to Tommy’s no job havin ass… lol