Wed 11 Mar 2009
Diddy vs. Ellen Degeneres: Judging Chris Brown and Rihanna
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March 11th, 2009 at 12:30 am
happy birthday info! have a good one!
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March 11th, 2009 at 12:38 am
Have a terrific and blessed birthday Info.
I usually like Diddy or at least find him to be a tolerable fellow but, he is off base.
If the face in that picture had been one of his daughters I bet he would feel different about offering her back up to her abuser.
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March 11th, 2009 at 12:43 am
like I said b4 Im sure diddy put hands on women sure its cool to says we dont know and its your house but dog you got 2 baby girls your moms and a sis you gonna sit there and says all that nonsense please you would not extend the same courtesy to any man that did that to the above mentioned women in your family .
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March 11th, 2009 at 12:55 am
Sup, how was [edited]. owww
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missinfo Reply:
March 11th, 2009 at 1:00 am
sorry….no greasiness : )
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March 11th, 2009 at 1:03 am
Dam, Diddy plug the hell out of Twitter!
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March 11th, 2009 at 1:04 am
yo i cant believe this guy was getting tight about this and is justifying his actions wow I guess he should of offered r kelly the same deal talking about he dont know the whole story im sure you do cause you dont want to put you ass in a situation where chris has always abused her and your supporting his actions lets hope and “pray” he never hits her again and she never hits him again but from history more than likely it will happen again lets see what city college bust a gun in the club throw shyne under the bus rob your artist will have to say next time …
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March 11th, 2009 at 1:06 am
miss info since your updating this post question would you do a story on payola or would you avoid it cause it would involve some of your friends in the industry ?
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March 11th, 2009 at 1:08 am
Well you are smiling lol
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March 11th, 2009 at 1:12 am
The truth is we don’t know. All we have is speculation and someone needs to tell Oprah that shit too.
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March 11th, 2009 at 1:13 am
diddy handled that well. and privately he probably has told brown what he did was wrong too
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March 11th, 2009 at 1:14 am
FINALLY A DON HAVE SPOKEN AND THIS GUY HAS RESPECT FROM CORPRATE AMERICA AND URBAN AMERICA, I HOPE A LOT OF PEOPLE SHOULD FOLLOW HIS TUNE AND HOW CRAZY IS THAT INFO AGREES CAUSE WE ALL REMEMBER HOW INFO WAS READY TO WWF BREEZY BACK IN FEB LOL SO THAT MEANS HE JUST MADE A LOT OF SENSE AND WATCH HOW HE SHUT ELLEN UP AND TOOK CONTROL, POWER MOVE, THANKS DIDDY!
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March 11th, 2009 at 1:20 am
it is his house…as he said but i wouldnt wish what happened to riri to happen to one of his daughters…having said that, would he have such a “lets pray for them” spirit if someone mashed one of his girls’ faces?
would he be ok with someone letting his daughter and her her abuser staying at their house to reconcile or would the abuser turn up missing?
give me a break diddy
p.s. mark curry pleasse call simon and schuster…lol
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March 11th, 2009 at 1:38 am
Finally! Thank you Puff.
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March 11th, 2009 at 2:10 am
Am I the only one that thinks in some situations it’s perfectly alright to judge? Judgment’s been getting a lot of bad press these days but really how else are we able to make wise, informed decisions without having to experience every mistake first-hand or repeatedly.
If a dude beats the crap out of a chick – I’m judging the crap out of that dude.
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March 11th, 2009 at 2:17 am
Son got them leathers man
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March 11th, 2009 at 2:21 am
Hopefully when one of Diddy’s Daughters gets punched in face multiple times, chocked, bitten, and threatened with death he will be kind enough to open his home to the attacker, and pray.
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March 11th, 2009 at 3:07 am
FUCK DIDDY! A REAL FRIEND NO WHEN 2 SAY I CANT HAVE NO PARTS OF DAT! ITS ALL PUBLICITY 4 DAT GUY! FUCK DAT SUCCA!
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March 11th, 2009 at 3:56 am
I agree with everyone who said ” if it were his daughters” I also agree with the whole
“its my house”crap.. i just think he shoulda fell back on being the “good non judgmental friend” on this one.. because if one of his twins had a big ole eye jammy from her celeb boy toy.. he wouldnt be so easy to say oh come stay at my fab crib and work out ur issues . its bullshit puff lol
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March 11th, 2009 at 5:43 am
Diddy’s full of shit. He’s a media whore, that’s why gave up his house. He wanted to get in the middle of it. He loves the attention, that’s it.
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March 11th, 2009 at 6:03 am
MAN CO-SIGN DIDDY !
HE DO KNOW THE TWO OF EM. MORE SO THAN ANY OF US DO , FURTHERMORE THEY ARE OBVIOUSLY TWO YOUNG ADULTS IN LOVE WHO HAD MADE ARRANGEMENTS TO MEET , THE LAST DETAIL WOULD BE THE LOCATION . WOULD YALL HAVE RATHER HER GO TO CHRIS BREEZY’S HOUSE?? BECAUSE I GUARANTEE IF THERE WAS NO ALTERNATIVE THEY WOULD HAVE FOUND A WAY TO HOOK UP ANYHOW , BUT THE NEUTRAL LOCATION WAS OBVIOUSLY CHOSEN BECAUSE RHIANNA HAD CONCERNS FOR HER SAFETY , AND WHY IS EVERYONE MAKING THE ASSUMPTION THAT RHI RHI DIDNT HAVE SECURITY SOMEWHERE NEARBY AT LEAST UNTIL SHE FELT COMFORTABLE THAT NOTHIN WAS GONNA HAPPEN???
I UNDERSTAND PEOPLES FEELINGS ABOUT THE PRINCIPAL OF WHAT DIDDY DID BUT THE REALITY TRUMPS THE PRINCIPAL , SHE WAS DETERMINED TO REUNITE WITH CHRIS OR AT LEAST RESOLVE HER FEELINGS , THE SAFEST WAY WAS DIDDYS CRIB , BECAUSE GOD KNOWS THEY COULDNT GO OUT IN PUBLIC AND DO IT.
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March 11th, 2009 at 7:14 am
it comes down to no one should hit no one like he said. as a parent i hope people take responsibility and raise there boys and girls to know hitting is never cool. and teach these girls if you hit a man be ready to face the consequenses. and vice versa.
equal rights mean equal fights lol
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March 11th, 2009 at 8:04 am
“Can we dance? I’m about to dance…” LMAO
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March 11th, 2009 at 9:05 am
the first thing he said is: It’s none of my business. If you are going to include his daughters then i dont think it would be “none of his business”. He didn’t offer his crib, he allowed two consenting adult “friends” to use his crib. You jerks are so willing to know what everyone ELSE is supposed to do, but wouldn’t have a clue on what YOU would do. Affairs of the heart are very delicate. Next thing he said is that he NOR YOU knows what went on in that vehicle. Basically, if everyone got their own demons in order there would be no time to be up in others’ affairs. I’m not condoning any inappropriate behavior from anyone, but what grown folk want to do with their lives and property amongst themselves has no bearing on you. You DO have to right to support anybody YOU want in any way YOU want. That includes listening and supporting anybody’s album sales, concert tickets etc. Other than that mind your busy body business and make sure YOU have not fallen short of grace. I’m sure each and every one of YOU can be held accountable for SOMETHING in your own lives. Make THAT your focus and “LIVE YOUR LIFE HEYYYY HEYYY HEYY”. If every one put as much effort into refining their own lives, relationships and shortcomings the world would be a better place.
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March 11th, 2009 at 9:08 am
LOL…..it’s a good thing a lot of people(if not most) in here don’t have diddy’s financial resources cuz the things being said are crazy and clearly it’s real easy to judge from a distance. “If it was his daughter, if this, if that…” but it wasn’t his daughter and truthfully he knows more about what happened getting it straight from them them anyone else does.
I think everyone is just really overcompensating for all the years of “acceptance” the general urban community gave R.Kelly so now folk wanna go in EXTRA hard on this to make up for it. IMO
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March 11th, 2009 at 9:53 am
Much love to Diddy for that, he handled it very well!
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March 11th, 2009 at 9:59 am
Finally one of these celebs is telling people to stay out of those two business. If it was his daughters it would affect him. This is what everyone is forgetting, Chris Brown didn’t hurt anyone but Rhianna. So in reality he could careless about the public forgiving, because he owes nothing to us. I bet he doesn’t even look at these blogs.
Its Diddy’s house and he can do whatever he wants with it. He doesn’t have to justify a thing to Ellen or the rest of the world. And nobody knows what really happened, its all one sided spectulation by the media.
And binary star your view of judgment makes no sense. That’s why they have trials, where all the details get discussed and them they can determine if it did anything wrong. What you have is merely an opinion. And we don’t put people behind bars based on that.
NFL player Geno Hayes was stabbed by his girlfriend a few days and amazingly enough the media has not reported a thing on it. None of these Domestic Violence groups has stepped up at all in his defense. But according Oprah, Tyra Banks, Dr. Phil and 106@Park who all just happen to have shows dedicated to DV on Thursday, who amazingly are only featuring female victims. Seems to me to be way one sided.
If your going to do a show domestic violence, then talk about all the factors. Not just trying to make women look like helpless victims. Because there are male victims out there, but for some reason their not worthy of being acknowledged.
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March 11th, 2009 at 10:37 am
@ Marlo Stanfield since you put it that way aight then
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March 11th, 2009 at 10:51 am
We know ONE fact ant that is thay Ri got beat up by Chris and that’s all we need to know. Puffy should tell Chris to read a book called Emotional Intelligence.
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March 11th, 2009 at 11:11 am
I agree with Diddy. And if it were Diddy’s daughters, than of course he would feel differently. As a parent it would be his responsibility to be involved. But Diddy is not Rihanna nor Chris’ parents, so he is doing the correct thing by being a friend to both of them and not judging them.
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March 11th, 2009 at 11:15 am
@ 14… That was a brick. See, this is the problem. It shouldn’t even be that important to you. When you feel you have to take a situation and judge it without all the facts then you lost. Just because we see a situation a certain way don’t make it right. Diddy did that right. He wasn’t in that car and neither were we. And after a thousand different stories and accounts about what happened we can still only assume. And that’s wrong. I bet Oprah felt slighted when Dave Chappelle made that skit about her fucking with Stedman and Dr. Phil and all that. But from the outside looking in that’s what people deduce. Don’t that seem wrong?
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March 11th, 2009 at 12:04 pm
The other thing that bothers me is …how is Diddy the ONLY celeb to actually ask people to stop judging. Even T.I. was out of pocket when he was asked about it. Just say…
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March 11th, 2009 at 12:27 pm
Ellen just went Roca Pads on Puff.
In short I don’t think the enlighten thing to do involving Chris and Rihanna is to completely abstain from judgment, but rather we should not allow their status as celebrities overshadow their basic privilege of being human. One of the privileges of being human is to be flawed and to get the opportunity to correct that flaw.
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March 11th, 2009 at 1:03 pm
#6… STFU!!! You are another one of those people. HOW DO YOU KNOW CHRIS HAS ALWAYS ABUSED HER? How do you know that????? Cause theb tabloids said so????
People have also said that Rihanna has abused him and everytime they fought she threw the first blow. I have heard that.(that doesnt make him right to hit her back) But no one was in that car. I agree with DIDDY! How dare people liek Oprah and Ellen feel they have the right to tell her who she should go back to and date. They do not know her situation and CB is 19 years old. Hes still very young he made a mistake, he doesnt deserve to be crucified for it.CB doesnt sleep with young girls regularly and pee on them. He got into a fight with his girlfriend (after she hit him first) and it went too far.THATS IT! You cant compare the two situations…
Shame on You and ELLEN for passing judgement like that. I didnt expect that from ELLEN. Im sure she hates when people pass judgement on her relationship. Some people believe she will burn in hell and wonder how diddy can even be friends with her. Its people who think like that too. So we need to be fair and understand people make mistakes…
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March 11th, 2009 at 1:10 pm
binary star…
He said he opened his house for them to figure out how they would deal with the situation, not to get back together. These two people are in the media and they will have to deal with this publically, they needed to speak to each other and work something out.Rather they got back together or not.
ITS WRONG FOR A MAN TO HIT A WOMAN, BUT ITS WRONG TO PASS JUDGEMENTS ON OTHER PEOPLE!
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March 11th, 2009 at 1:51 pm
Ellen really why are we passing judgment on situations we know nothing about?? I mean it is no more fair for you to attack Diddy for helping his friend then it would be for a neurotic Christian crusader to attack your friend for helping you because you’re gay! I mean really get somewhere and sit down….I love how being judgmental takes on different definitions when suits a person’s beliefs :-/
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March 11th, 2009 at 2:59 pm
Puff being the voice of reason equals DOOMSDAY for us all lol
I agree with him too, but then again it’s not like he can criticize Chris to harshly.
Speaking of parents, where’s Rihanna’s Mom? Why wasn’t she on the first thing flying out of Barbados when her daughter got beat down? and Why does her Dad keep giving interviews to gossip mags? Poor baby, no wonder she’s running back to Chris.
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March 11th, 2009 at 4:08 pm
can anyone confirm the rumors of a CB RiRi duet….i hope not
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March 11th, 2009 at 4:51 pm
Hmm. I’m not sure how to make my point any more clear. I could really give a shit about both of them to be honest. My point was that I have no problem passing judgment on people based on their actions.
Obviously people get judged unfairly all the time and that’s wrong – but trust me – A guy that pounds his girlfriend’s face in does not need people riding for his cause of being portrayed unfairly.
And mustafa – I put my comment in the most general terms because I was not speaking directly on Their situation but the fact that I’m tired of people using flimsy arguments to support their questionable opinions.
You are absolutely right that I don’t know what happened in that car leading up to the incident. All I know is I saw a photo of him taken shortly after it smiling and I saw a photo of her shortly after looking like she got dragged on the back of a horse.
Given that, if CB showed up to take your mom out on a date would you not be more than a little concerned?
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March 11th, 2009 at 5:27 pm
looooooooooooooooool this is funny
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March 11th, 2009 at 7:29 pm
This interview so annoyed me. Umm, we don’t know what happened? Ok, so I guess Rihanna’s face was beaten up all by itself. Since Puffy has a history of beating women, then I guess he thinks it’s ok. We have every right to judge a horrible situation. Judge on, people. I already thought Puffy was a douche…this confirms it. Def. not supporting him and any of these wack a$$ celebs who are taking this punka$$ stance about not judging. “Not judging” and “he made a mistake” is code for I think it is ok. LAME!!!
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March 11th, 2009 at 8:34 pm
Info, if you agree with diddy then you also agree with that dude “Big” who was saying the same exact thing when the whole situation went down….
Hmmmmm kinda scary to think you actually agree with that dude lol
Where did he go? I bet he’s love to say “I told you so”
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Bill Bixby Reply:
March 11th, 2009 at 8:58 pm
Hey Annoyed, you’re a real psycho if you think!! “Not judging” and “he made a mistake” is code for I think it is ok.” That’s like the most fucked up deductive reasoning I’ve ever seen in my life!
People have issues and that’s life this entire situation is wrong from top to bottom and Chris Brown dont need angre management he need to sit down with a real grown man get his little ass beat and then talk about lines that shouldn’t be crossed so that he understands how to act next time.. But to simply make this your run of the mill Domestic violence or spousal abuse situation is wrong because while a picture is worth a thousand words it impossible for it to tell the entire story. And NO there is no justification for what was done to her but the situation is entirely too complicated to jump right in with both feet and make this something that it POSSIBLY shouldn’t be made into.
EVERYONE has been in situations where tempers go out of control maybe you slapped someone or they slapped you or maybe you got choked up or the shit shake’d outta you w/e point being stuff like this happens
Young girls definitely shouldn’t be encouraged to stay in situations like these but instead of making this a radical black or white issue lets try to better understand they subtle nuances that may exists so that young girls know what lines should never be crossed and how to properly respond when its crossed. The way things are now I think only further confuses young ladies and send them back into harm’s way like what we’re seeing in this situation…
To paraphrase my personal favorite poster on her “Big” and Busta and Diddy PEOPLE JUST NEED TO MIND THEY FUCKING BUSINESS and let those two people handle their private business behind closed doors and move on with their lives.. The amount of victim battering I saw on here after they decided to get back together was disgusting. God only knows how embarrassed that young lady must be and I could only imagine how she must feel right now being so confused and spiritually broken to see people continue to compound the apparent beating she took that night…
Real Classy – Critics
Everyone is right no one has any fucking compassion or empathy.. Nice!! Am I the only one whose seen the movie “idiocracy”?
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March 11th, 2009 at 8:52 pm
Diddy: “We have to do what we can to support them.”
Why are WE supporting Chris Brown?
Ellen: “I don’t want any young girl thinking it’s okay to go back to man after he hits you.”
Diddy EPIC FAIL
Ellen FTW!
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March 11th, 2009 at 9:15 pm
wow that was way too much..
Happy Birthday Info
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March 11th, 2009 at 10:07 pm
I think we can finally see where Mase got his preacher game from…Reverend Diddy! Who else can go from “you weren’t in that car” to “let’s dance”…Jesus. BTW, am I the only one who thinks that you could convince Ellen to do just about anything as long as you were dancing while you did it? “Let us pray” indeed…for humanity.
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March 12th, 2009 at 1:02 am
man…sometimes diddy says some dumb shit i dont agree with BUT this time my nigga…he handled that “bossly”…and you could tell he was tight but shout out to him for keeping his composure and switching it up on the dance shit! i mean what everyone wouldve like to see was him go off on Ellen like you stop badgering me and chris and rihanna but nah…he made his point, shut her up, and smiled about the shit all in one wop! good shit!
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March 12th, 2009 at 1:18 am
Diddy is one of the first celebs to speak on that situation, and keep it real. Fact is, there were two people there, and not any of us. I hate to see adults like Ellen and Oprah go off of a report that was filed by an angry 21-year-old, without the case or Chris sayin his side of the story. I feel like everybody who’s taking sides and passin judgements are real ignorant, and lack wisdom. We all have made mistakes in life, difference is our mistakes aren’t blown up.
Everybody all sayin poor rihanna, ya’ll don’t know what she did to chris. This shit is bogus how da world is yo biggest fans one day n jumps on u as soon as u make a mistake.
Yea Chris shouldn’t have hit her back but still this is his first legal issue, so you know it was a childish mistake. And a lot of these celebs that are taking Rihanna’s side without knowing the full story are phony as hell, they’ll learn when somethin happens to them.
Until both of the sides of the story is discussed in court, everybody needs to shut up about it cause like Diddy said, we dont know what happened. Damn people, get a life and worry about your sins before you cast stones on this 19-year-old.
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March 12th, 2009 at 2:37 pm
So now that the police report has come out and she DIDNOT HIT Chris, now what? Now that everyone knows she did nothing but try and defend herself what do you have to say now? He beat her… beat her, not punch, not slap, but beat her. And you idoits are defending this mess. Puffy is stupid and so are you dumbies defending him for beating that girl up.
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March 12th, 2009 at 2:41 pm
Diddy just wanted a piece of the spotlight!! I can see right thru dude! Publicity for HIM!
And how ELLEN gon say ANYTHING!!! What SHE DOIN’ AINT RIGHT!! Her lifestyle aint right! WHY does Hip Hop even mess with HER??!!!
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March 12th, 2009 at 2:41 pm
To peacemaker, Chris didn’t need to go to the hosptial. I may not what she did exactly to him, but she didn’t bust his lip and fuck up his face, bite his ear and fingers. He turned hisself into jail, not the hospital, so if she DID sooooooooooooooo much to, why didn’t the police take his blodd spatted clothes?
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March 12th, 2009 at 11:27 pm
shout out to diddy 4 this one.
liek he said FRIEND he didnt say he was bein a prent or acting from a parents pov so whats the point in using the twins as an example.
once again, rihanna & chris are not sending yall gift baskets for the “heartfelt” comments lol. lames
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March 12th, 2009 at 11:28 pm
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March 17th, 2009 at 7:26 pm
That guy could never dance!
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